Loaves and Fishes: How the masses were fed in 20 minutes

Written by admin on June 30th, 2009

The plan is to make dinner about three times a week, with the other nights being leftovers or scrounge nights.  So typically I make a big amount of whatever I make.  However, the Hawaiian skewers I made last night went fast.

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So tonight, I was kinda doing the low key summer lowbrow meal kinda thing, frying up some bacon for BLT’s.  I had bought some of our favorite Kettle chips, a treat for us and there was some my leftover masterful potato salad, soI figured this would all suffice nicely.

I was noticing there was alot of bacon though.  I was wondering how in the world I was going to use up all this bacon.  I really don’t like the stuff much, and my sweet fella, well, he will inhale it if I look the other direction, much to his health.  So all this bacon.

Addy and Sylvie were out playing on a blanket in the yard.  Every now and then I am poking my head out telling Addy “hey, don’t put the blanket over her face, please.”  “Hey take the worms away from the baby before she eats them.”  when a phone call comes.

I think this is one of maybe three calls that can strike fear in my heart in an instant.  A pleasant young lady on the other end of the line says “Hi, we have you down to make a meal for the shelter tonight,”

ZOIKS!!!  I go to my calendar and sure enough it is the fifth Tuesday of the month.  How did I miss it?  I thought my only other meal was in September!  Crikey!

We have a brief discussion, it is 6:25, the meal was due at 6:00.  I tell her I think I can bring sandwiches?  She suggests pizza.  I am doing the mental calculation of a take and bake pizza and the time it would take… She tells me the people at the shelter have a class at 7 p.m.  Can they eat during the class?  No.  They have to talk and write and stuff.  Caramba, work with me!  She seemed a little out of hope when I tell her I also have two little kids I am working with here. Okay I tell her, I am going to see what I can do.

All the bacon goes into my little omelet pan.  Bread, enough for 7 sandwiches.  Thanks be to God I just went grocery shopping and bought a bunch of tomatoes for hot weather sandwiches.  And thanks be to Mustard Seed Farm (and Jeff!) for the boatload of lettuce we currently have.

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At 6:40 J walks in the door and helps me wrap up two plates of sandwiches as I assemble the last ones with steamy hot bacon and garden fresh lettuce.  I grab our bag of special occasion chips and head out the door.

Meal delivered by approximately 6:45.  Holy cow.  Bad planning nightmare narrowly averted.  And now there is no question about what to do with all that blasted bacon.  I wonder if Jesus would have fed the masses with bacon?

Photo essay: Twin Rocks

Written by admin on June 8th, 2009

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This weekend our family went to Twin Rocks to RETREAT!!!!  That is really a good word, it’s like treat and re-treat.

It was a treat.  Sylvie and I just hung around while A and J brushed up on their putting.

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Since A was sporting a Mr. T look, I kept trying to get her to say “I PITY THE FOOL!” but she wasn’t really buying it.

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I was so pleased to find this little patch of serene beauty.  My shot with a babe on the back didn’t do it justice.

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Heading back to camp, this is where we slept.

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Sylvie was awake and taking in all the sites.  She also liked the back pack because it gave her unprecedented access to my hair, which she could pull on and taste.

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J and A went for a little row in the boat, and while they were out, I saw a beaver swimming along and took a few pics.

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This little boat house just made me happy.

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And of course we went to the beach.

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J thought it would be a very campy camp and while he kept an open mind, I think he was relieved that they hadn’t scheduled us up so much that we couldn’t just spend most of the time doing just as we wanted.

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The closest we could get to a family shot.  We need a camera-walla to take pictures of us.

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We flew some kites on the beach. The little star was a bust, but the kite I bought went well.

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Here with the rocks in the distance.

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While J took in the scenery around the foot bridge, A thought it was good fun to run around and make the camera follow her.

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I don’t think I have ever owned a camera that could get a shot like this before.

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And of course there was time for rest.

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A and I went on a nature walk on the wetlands trail.  It was alot of fun with her because she is still fascinated by little bugs and flowers and all the creatures.

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And she likes to get down and really check them out, which I love.

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We re-named the flora that the previous scientists had misnamed with their latin words.  This we renamed “zazzleberry” because it was so fancy.

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And the new scientific name for this one is “delicate fuzzy white bells”.

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A grew very tired of me taking pictures and started to yell “C’mon!”

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We have been excited to meet quite a few of these little green caterpillar things.  I think they are tent caterpillars.  We chose not to name them beyond “little green caterpillars” because I remember how eerie those tent caterpillars were.

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A got to hold some wet gooey things with shells on them when a guy there did a little lesson on the tide pool stuff.

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We could only handle the beach for a little time because it was a Cold and Windy Oregon Beach.

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The staff did a good job at making the place pretty with these rhododendrons which scheduled their bloom for our visit.

It was a good break.  A much needed one in this past year of fence and wall building, no vacations and alot of work.  Not to mention the new baby and the new job that I started and then left.

Sabrina and Matthew arrive tomorrow and we have fun stuff planned for their time here so our Big Break for the year has begun.  Thanks be to God.

Everything is so fascinating…

Written by admin on June 2nd, 2009

I have been lucky enough to have some new people come into my life lately.  Even luckier because they are gracious, interesting, intelligent, articulate and have many interests.

(Here I have deleted a long rant about the behavior of my 4 year old in these past weeks)

I feel like I am meeting someone I wish I had met a very, very long time ago.  Someone who if I knew her in high school, would have saved me years of misery.  I could make a list of why I like her, but suffice it to say, she cooks and loves it, she plays music and writes it even and does it masterfully, she has a clay oven that she built in her back yard (!), she is preparing the sail the world with her two young daughters and her husband, she is a lover of words and learning, she writes…and she says things like “Everything is so fascinating!”

And when I think about it, I have that in me too.  I remember on many occasions wondering why people didn’t enjoy life more, explore more, travel more, or do what they enjoy more.  I don’t understand the “this is boring” sentiment.  I love being reminded that everything is so fascinating.   I want to hold on to those words to remind me when I am feeling gray and trod upon by life.

Creation is very good, and the Creator, even better.  Thank you friend for your simple but refreshing words.

Why can’t we be friends?

Written by admin on May 27th, 2009

Following up with our new years resolution to make friends in our new community, we invited some people over.

I knew them from some things, our kids were in a class together, they seemed very nice.  We didn’t really know them all that well, though.

So all was going well, kids playing, adults visiting.  But then little guy has to go to the bathroom.  No biggie, mom goes to help the guy out because it will be his first time in a foreign potty.

I am filling coffees, getting food onto the table, dishes, juice, eggs… you get the picture, when A runs in like a 5 alarm fire.

“HE JUST WENT POTTY ON THE FLOOR!”  I can see mom’s face is hoping I will respond nicely.

“Honey, he is our guest, it’s not a big deal.”  Mom relaxes a little.  But A insists.

“BUT MOMMY HE PEED ON THE FLOOR!”  I am, at the point, thinking a little more about not having cold eggs, and if there is a puddle on the floor, its beyond my capacity.  The breakfast train is in motion, not to be stopped.

“A, he is our guest, he can pee wherever he wants, it’s ok,”  At that point mom looks at me like I have a horn growing out of my cheek.

I know that look.  It’s the “Are you insane?” look.  I have seen it before, typically in situations much like these.

And so we keep pressing forward, looking for friends. Considering giving up.

Why didn’t I get a “choice”?

Written by admin on May 21st, 2009

Last year, about this time of the year, I was trying to make arrangements for the birth of the daughter.

My first daughter everything was cool, baby was healthy and I was fine, but my doc decided it was all taking a little too long and said we should have a C-section.

When you’re on the table, and your doctor says she recommends C-section after 24 hours, it is hard to know the right course of action.  I was without sleep, anesthetsized and very happy to be having a baby.  C-section wasn’t really an option, until the moment the doctor said she recommended one.

In retrospect, I know now I should have just flatly said “no”.  But with baby number one, I just wanted to do what seemed like the right thing to do in the circumstances.

For Sylvie, I felt locked into having another C-section.  I didn’t want one, but VBAC was suddenly “out” hospitals didn’t like them, nor did doctors, and insurance companies wouldn’t insure them.

I wasn’t real happy about it.  There is a long recovery time, longer with the second that the first.  Plus I had another kid running around.  Plus I just didn’t want to have an “operation” to have a baby.  I didn’t want major abdominal surgery again.

But I had no choice.

A friend just pointed out to me that it seems ironic that women have the choice to kill their unborn babies, but do not have the choice to deliver them as they prefer.

Where is the women’s rights people when you need them?  Where are they when it comes to finding a place to breastfeed?  Where are they when it comes to family leave?  Where are they when it comes to teen pregnancy?

Is the right to abortion the only thing anyone cares about?

The Wall: a do it yourself epic tale

Written by admin on May 6th, 2009

In November of 2007  we moved to a new home in a new community.  It was only about a hour from the home we had and we had to move because J was commuting 4 hours daily to his job.  We had to get closer.

We decided that we didn’t want to make the full 2 hour leap to a small town, so we stayed a little closer to the Portland metro area.  In doing this, however,  I had to get a new job.

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The Willamette Valley, our new home.

In November of 2007, after 9 months of being on the market, we got the first real prospective buyers for our home.  Even though they were offering too little, we got them up into a range that didn’t make our stomachs turn.

Then we had to turn on a dime and find a place in this new community we had ultimately settled on.  We didn’t really have alot of time, we had to hustle, they wanted to move in fast.

We ended up in a nice enough, solidly built home in a quiet little neighborhood.  The only drawback?  The whole side of the house opened up to what turned out to be a rather busy street.  People were flying past at 40 mph on this 25 mph lane that used to dead end just beyond our house.  But, since they punched the road through to connect with a freeway, things had changed.

We stood on the side of our house and surveyed the open yard we had, which would allow any person to come and take out of our back yard whatever they liked.  Of course they wouldn’t, this community was small and it hadn’t occurred, but it also meant no safe place for a tike to play.

Since the house sat on a sort of slope, before we could fence it, we knew we had to build a wall.  J, my woodworker/coder husband boldly seemed ready for the task ahead.

We mentally lifted 80 lb concrete blocks, we mentally calculated the cost for the material for the wall, we mentally said goodbye to a vacation in 2008, as we poured resources into closing up a back yard.

The first step was to figure out what we were doing, and mr. coderman, of course first thing, he googled it.  After measuring, we realized we needed a 50 foot long wall that would be 4 feet tall at its highest point, since we are on a slight slope.

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 Here you can see the slope, the house and the openness of everything.  If J looked up he would look into our back yard, which everyone else could look into as well.  What were we thinking?  We were thinking we needed a house, fast.

We called to see if there were gas lines, and then the trench was dug.  Jeff dug energetically and vigorously, feeling a sense of accomplishment at his 50 foot long 4 foot wide trench that took a month of weekends to dig.  The neighbors looked on quizically, “Why they messin up their yard?”

The clincher was, after digging this trench in which to set the bricks, he had to basically dig it again, deeper.

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Here is a good part of the first step.  Having this accomplished, J rested a bit, and we gathered our strength for buying block.

J knew he had to do some stuff with fabric and he had to work out drainage issues so the trench was beset with dealing with a sprinker system, and then putting a whole bunch of landscape fabric down. This was Spring 08.

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Dealing with roots of a tree was a component of digging the trench.  Miraculously, the tree is alive still.

After the trench was dug, work stalled.

Choosing bricks, and specifically buying bricks first, was a major gulp to contend with.

I scouted prices and delivery costs. We estimated the cost of the wall entirely too low at first, and when the real prices started coming through, our stomachs started to turn.  But there was no backing out.

Eight pallets of block stood on that sidewalk for a couple weeks before the big commitment began: laying that first block.

 

I think this part was the hardest for J.  The wall is pretty high profile, like I said, we came to learn that is was along a road that was basically being used as a bypass to a freeway.

 

Laying that first row of block, even though the ground was completely prepared with fabric and rock, was a committment.  He didn’t want to build something that would look all messy and ridiculous, he wanted a fine wall.  He has high standards for his work.  Thus, a slight hesitation.

 

Fortunately, J’s dad has no such issues.  He came right along and started laying the block, cornerstone and the first row.  No back supporting belt, no gloves, just some 80 lb blocks being laid one by one into that trench.  My back hurts just to think about it, but grandad would hear nothing of a a belt.

And that was the real groundbreaking.  Once J saw his dad was doing it, well he knew that the wall couldn’t wait a moment longer.  J donned work gear, and they got going together.  This was July and August of 2008.

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Here is J’s dad, looking like a day out on the golf course as he surveys four rows of 80 lb block laid.  In the foreground is lil A sitting on the palette of block.

Once the first row was laid, the wall came along at a steady clip.  People were commenting “That’s a fine looking wall!” and Jeff would stand back and look at how the lines worked and how it was turning out.  His civil engineer side combined with his desire to save a buck was satisfied.  His work was coming out very , very well.

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After the first row was laid, the wall popped up pretty quickly.  The only tricky parts were returning the bricks toward the house to complete the wall.  With angles being what they were, the guys surveyed everything quite a few times to make sure their plans were correct.

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Here Jeff is sawing one of the blocks to fit.  He also caulked between the layers.  I love his hat.

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After the wall was completed, the capstone needed to go on, and the whole thing needed to be backfilled.  It took something like 8 yards of gravel and our neighbors Dingo to get the thing all filled.

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Here’s Jeff getting the gravel in before we loaded it up then with topsoil, about 9 yards or something like that. In this shot the capstones have been loaded on.

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After the rocks were backfilled in the wall, the guys started plotting out where the postholes needed to go for the fence that would be set on top of the wall.  This was probably about September when the post holes were set.

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Here’s Jeff with his pop getting the first post up, filling a piece of heavy duty cardboard tubing with concreted and measuring many times with all the surveying and wood working level tools to make sure the posts weren’t all cattywampus.  This seemed to be Jeff’s biggest point of contention, he did not want his fence to be all crooked, like the fences he had been looking at around town.

I am going to post this now, I told you this was a long process.  The next part:  The fence itself.  The part that J was more looking forward to because woodworking is what he really enjoys.

Some sort of something nasty

Written by admin on May 4th, 2009

I write to say how thoroughly grateful I am that I think our family is done being sick.

The kids didn’t get it as bad as J and I did.

And it actually came in handy that he often denies that he is sick, so that he could take care of the kids while I did what I do when I am sick: hide in bed.  I did that for a day or maybe even 2, it wasn’t working so well, actually.  I thought that’s what you were supposed to do, but I think that being in the bed made my temperature higher than it might have been normally, cause it came right down when I sat about for awhile.

It’s also no fun being sick with kids.  As long as someone is healthy enough to take care of the others, its manageable, but otherwise I can see it just being an awful mess.

Reason #3980 that I will tell my kids that they should stay close to home when they have kids.

Edit:  I am going to the doctor tomorrow because it has come back.  We can’t both be sick with 2 kids!

Scream free week

Written by admin on April 27th, 2009

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A female friend who I treasure wrote this about TV turn off week, which we observed this past week.

In reading her post it made me very much want to call and talk to her, or at least leave a long comment because she has let her guard down and is talking what she really feels on a subject that as a mom, we deal with.  I appreciate hearing it.

And following my friend, I am going to let my guard down a little bit too about the TV set in the life of my child.

If you are also raising kids, please don’t take my comments to include you or to pass any form of judgment.  It’s just me, squeaking loudly about my thoughts and feelings in a place where I should be able to do just that from time to time.

We observed TV turn off week.  I chose to do so despite my 4 year old reaching needy peaks of my attention and pushing my patience to the limit in recent weeks (Mom, why is it raining?  Mom, why is there mail?  Mom, why is there dirt?  Mom, why are you thirsty?  Mom, why is there oatmeal?  Mom, why is the carpet soft?  Mom why is the baby hungry? you get the picture…)  It was something I had been thinking about for a long time.  Now, at our house we do not have any cable.  We watch no TV except what comes in the mail via Netflix.  I feel very ok about that.  The only time I watch the mind numbing drivel that is on the tube is if I venture across it at the house of an older person, or in a hotel room.  In other words, seldom at best.

I do allow DVD’s from the library, but at the risk of sounding like a TV Nazi, I allow her to pick out one of whatever she likes and I usually also pick an education type of DVD.  At our library, there are alot of sign language videos.  I don’t really expect her to learn it, but I like the idea of her maybe taking it in and if she wants to go with it, she can.

I avoid videos that have themes of monsters, falling in love, potty humor or magical things (except in a cultural context, I have allowed her to watch Spirited Away and Kiki which kinda pushed the envelope).

So until last week, after she turned 2 I let A watch 1/2 to an hour of TV a day.  Carefully chosen programming, and carefully oriented in the day to allow me to fix supper.  I felt like this was a good compromise, until she would wake up asking to watch TV.  And all day long, esp in the winter, she would ask to watch TV.  And then there was this fight from her when the TV was turned off.  After having this happen for awhile, I started looking for a way out.

Then, if it wasn’t the TV, it was the computer game, which initially felt pretty good about, after all, it was educational, right?  Yeah, but it is still a screen.

So when I saw the screen free week, I leapt on it.

It went fine.  We went to parks and play dates and all the usual stuff and somehow, that TV set just never got turned on.  She did ask, and when she did, I told her we weren’t watching TV so that we could spend more time playing (and if I was feeling snarky I told her the TV was rotting her brain).

A doesn’t watch us watch TV.  Our TV is off all day unless she watches it.  It was only till the last couple days that she quit asking for it.

My thoughts on the subject were that if we completely banned something in our house, she would grow up thinking of it as the “forbidden fruit” and would have an overdeveloped taste for it.

However, if I permit it, lately I have had to navigate her continually asking for it OR being her sole playmate unless there is are friends I can get her together with.  Since I am in a new community, I am in a playgroup, but don’t have a huge selection of people to call for trips to the park.  (But if it isn’t them playing with her, it is me-or the struggle to continually encourage self entertaining- so I suppose I should just get on that phone, no?)

We just got done painting together, and I have appreciated the lack of her asking to watch TV or play on the computer that has only come after the weekend.  So, I guess that scree-free week was a success.

The only time it got dicey was during Spanish tutoring.  J had to work, and keep the kids out of my hair while I tutored to girls and their mom.  It wasn’t working out very well.  I explained to the mom that it was “screen-free” week.  She looked a little worried (she has only recently met us) “Scream-free week?” she asked.  A little harried from my daughter, I re-enunciated. Later, after all was over and the somewhat taxing time was over, we laughed about scream-free week.

It’s all over now, but I can say I see a definite difference in A’s lack of focus on the TV.  She plays all day with her toys and doesn’t as to sit in front of the tube.  She asks to go places, but that’s cool.  So, I guess it was a good thing.

I can’t stand in a place of righteousness with the TV, and compared to others who wonder what the big fuss is about, I look like a raving lunatic.  Thankfully, I hardly care.

Because the weather is suddenly warm

Written by admin on April 21st, 2009

Mom’s Chicken Rice and Fruit Salad

Dressing:

1 tsp. Grated fresh orange peel
¾  cup orange juice or concentrate
½ cup oil
2 T. sugar
1 T. white wine vinegar
½ tsp. Salt

Salad:
2 cups standard white rice
3 cups chicken broth
1 small chicken, approx 6 lbs
1 cup slivered almonds
6 cups of romaine lettuce
¾ cup finely chopped dried apricots
½ cup chopped green onion
4 ounces of craisins

When you decide that the weather is sufficiently hot enough to make a salad for supper, wait until your kitchen cools enough to boil the 6 lb chicken.  I might suggest an 8 qt pressure cooker pot with the lid on it without closing it all the way, but a large 6 to 8 quart pot of anything will do.  And if you want to be fancy you can also rotisserie cook it or bake it if it suits your taste.  Basically you just need to cook that chicken.

Then, make the rice and after its cooked, just let it sit and cool off for a couple hours.

Assemble the ingredients for the dressing and blend it well.

Pick your chicken of meat and cut up at least 3 or so cups of meat.

Clean your romaine leaves and allow them to dry off, then cut them to salad size pieces, leaving the strong white spine part out.  Throw the lettuce into a large bowl.

When you assemble the salad, neither your rice nor your chicken should be hot, unless you want a warm salad with less than lively romaine.

In the bowl, on top the romaine, add the green onions, the rice, the various nuts and fruits and then the chicken.  Toss it with a large metal spoon reaching all the way to the bottom to get it well blended, then add the dressing and toss again.  Serve it in an attractive and large serving dish, because this makes A LOT of salad, over 10 cups, it’s enough to serve 4 or 5 people at least.  It goes nicely with a crusty loaf of bread or some good Kettle chips.

Hope you like it.  Oh, a word about substitutions, I tried this with iceberg, thinking that iceberg was hearty enough to bear the weight of the chicken and rice, and I was wrong.  You could use a different nut instead of almonds, like say cashews.

Mom’s Chicken Rice and Fruit Salad

 

Dressing:

 

1 tsp. Grated fresh orange peel

¾  cup orange juice or concentrate

½ cup oil

2 T. sugar

1 T. white wine vinegar

½ tsp. Salt

 

Salad:

2 cups standard white rice

3 cups chicken broth

1 small chicken, approx 6 lbs 1 cup slivered

6 cups of romaine lettuce

¾ cup finely chopped dried apricots

½ cup chopped green onion

4 ounces of craisins

 

When you decide that the weather is sufficiently hot enough to make a salad for supper, wait until your kitchen cools enough to boil the 6 lb chicken.  I might suggest an 8 qt pressure cooker pot with the lid on it without closing it all the way, but a large 6 to 8 quart pot of anything will do.  And if you want to be fancy you can also rotisserie cook it or bake it if it suits your taste.  Basically you just need to cook that chicken.

 

Then, make the rice and after its cooked, just let it sit and cool off for a couple hours.

 

Assemble the ingredients for the dressing and blend it well.

 

Pick your chicken of meat and cut up at least 3 or so cups of meat.

 

Clean your romaine leaves and allow them to dry off, then cut them to salad size pieces, leaving the strong white spine part out.  Throw the lettuce into a large bowl.

 

When you assemble the salad, neither your rice nor your chicken should be hot, unless you want a warm salad with less than lively romaine.

 

In the bowl, on top the romaine, add the green onions, the rice, the various nuts and fruits and then the chicken.  Toss it with a large metal spoon reaching all the way to the bottom to get it well blended, then add the dressing and toss again.  Serve it in an attractive and large serving dish, because this makes A LOT of salad, over 10 cups, it’s enough to serve 4 or 5 people at least.  It goes nicely with a crusty loaf of bread or some good Kettle chips.

 

Hope you like it.  Oh, a word about substitutions, I tried this with iceberg, thinking that iceberg was hearty enough to bear the weight of the chicken and rice, and I was wrong.  You could use a different nut instead of almonds, like say cashews.

 

 

 

 

My new place.

Written by admin on April 18th, 2009

I half wrote a post about the demon that has taken over my now 4 year old… and try to make light and humor out of what amounts to a fight for my ongoing sanity, but it’s on the back burner.  Maybe some lucky day you will get to read about our trials.  Wahoo! What fun!

But for now I am going to wax eloquent about how much I love my new home.

Not the house, that is, though the house is fine.  My new community.

I love the huge number of stay at home moms.

I love that we are all broke together.

I love that everyone tries to save money.

I love the co-ops of every sort.

I love that people buy parts of cows together, drink raw milk, shop farmers markets and talk about reuseable diapers and how to make laundry detergent.

I love how people get excited about menu planning. Or maybe not excited, but that it’s an interesting fun thing to do.

I love that the moms here help each other.  They talk to you at the park and think little of it.

I love that it doesn’t feel cliquey to me, that people will accept you even if you are “outside their group”, at least most people do.

I love how into adoption people are.

I love that there are moms who admit to being library nerds.

I love how it seems like everyone is involved in some service, no matter how small…service is valued, people live beyond themselves.

I love the vineyards and the orchards and the valley and the mountains nearby.

I love the little downtown, even if there is a highway running through it.

I love the two big trees in our front yard.

I love that there are groups that you can get to meet people in.  And they don’t make you feel guilty if you miss.

I love many, many things about this place.  Ask me again sometime why I love it here, I will probably have more answers for you.

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This is a resort that is being built near our home.  I only post this pic to give an idea of the scenery where we are nestled.  It is called the Allison, come stay there and you can practically walk to our house.  If you come over, I will make you some yummy chicken bento with peanut and spicy sauce and rice and edamame.  Can you tell that I am thinking we will be eating that soon?

On another note, I tried to get our free piano moved home today, I didn’t love that.

I called to Penske Monday, they didn’t call back.

I called again Wednesday, again I left a message, this time with a real person and they didn’t call back.

Because I needed a lift gate truck and they are the only ones with them, I called again Friday and this time after I told them I had called twice, they did call me back… to tell me they didn’t have one.

This was Friday afternoon, and the move was scheduled for Sat AM.  Great.  So I called another Penske place, and she perkily told me that she had one and I could come pick it up Sat AM no problem.

So I go.  Sat AM, it took two phone calls and an hour for her to fill out my contract.  Okay maybe only 45 minutes.  But then she took me back to what was just a plain old moving truck. No lift gate.  She tried to pull out the ramp, showing me what she thought was what I wanted.  Um, no, that’s not a lift gate.  I could forgive her easily enough for not knowing how to fill out the paperwork, but I had to bite my lip when I saw she didn’t even know what I was looking for.

People were due to arrive to help in less than a half an hour.  I couldn’t believe my luck.  I had to call the whole thing off (suppressing urge to sing that song here).  This was the second time we had to call the move of the piano off.

On the bright side when I called them to tell Penske of the debacle that was my rental, they offered to rent to me at a much lower rate and apologized.  We hopefully will try again next weekend.